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THE NIGERIAN PARTY: WHEN THE CELEBRATION BECOMES BIGGER THAN THE PERSON

Our weddings, birthdays and owambe have become elaborate expressions of status, belonging and social ambition. But beneath the music, aso ebi and spectacle lies an uncomfortable question: when does celebration stop being about joy and start becoming a performance for other people?

Eshiowith Eshio2 September 2026paid

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